Where does a child learn these abusive words (foul language)? First of all, they learn it from home. A father who abuses his wife over every little thing, abuses his children, or uses such language in private gatherings with friends and on the mobile phone, then this child is learning from the father. The child thinks that abusing is not a bad thing when they see the father abusing the mother at every turn. The child learns the most by watching and listening. The child will do the exact same things in the future that they are seeing now, no matter how much you try to stop them from doing something; doing what they have witnessed becomes an inevitable nature. Then the same things come to the child's tongue. If you want to see what the environment of this child's home is like, just listen to the child's language. The home environment can be known from the child's language. The state of upbringing inside the home can be judged by the child's personality—what kind of upbringing is taking place in the home. The child's way of sitting and standing, their way of speaking, conversing, and mannerisms will reveal it all. There is a lack of proper upbringing in our homes, which is why there is a spoilage in our children. We think that because they went to school, tuition, or a madrasa, our responsibility is fulfilled. This responsibility is not fulfilled. Give them time separately, use civilized words in your conversation so that the child learns language, manners, and tone from you. ____________📝📝____________ Book: 330 Guiding Principles for the Upbringing of Children Page Number: 175 Author: Maulana Muhammad Noman Sahib Selection: Islamic Tube Pro App