Another painful aspect of society is this:

For any boy and girl, after marriage, their top priority is to attain the blessing of children. But it is observed that even before the color of the bride's henna has faded, the grandmothers and elderly women of the entire neighborhood gather and say to the girl, "Daughter-in-law, when are you giving us the good news?"

As if the good news is something the daughter-in-law brought along with her in her dowry, and giving this good news is entirely within her control.

And for couples whose marriage has crossed a period of three to four years, people say, "Give the good news now at least!" But have we ever thought about how these sentences of ours cut through that girl's heart like a saw, and how much mental stress she must be suffering from?

The sentences we speak are not merely sentences; they are clubs of words through which we murder that girl's desires. Who knows how many consolations that girl must have given herself, and what efforts she must have made to distract her mind.

But our single question, which is asked just for casual gossip, causes so much agony and pain to that girl that ordinary people cannot even imagine it.

It is this very pressure due to which girls go to fake faith healers, where they not only waste their money but sometimes also lose their honor.

I implore my mothers and sisters to be careful in saying anything, and act upon "weigh your words before you speak". This is not the time to indulge in gossip.

This is the time to increase their hope, to encourage them, and to strengthen their faith in the existence of Allah. God forbid, if tomorrow the same situation arises with our own sister or daughter, where will we go?

Therefore, all of us should choose our words very thoughtfully so that no one's feelings are hurt and they do not become victims of mental stress. Encourage people and treat them with sympathy and love.