*Good companionship between spouses involves four things:*
1) Husn al-Khitab:
*Speaking in a good and polite manner.*
2) Husn al-Mazhar:
*Taking care of outward cleanliness and adornment.*
3) Al-Afw 'an al-Zallat:
*Overlooking and forgiving mistakes.*
4) Al-Leen fil-Mu'amalah:
*Gentleness in dealings.*
*May Allah Almighty grant the ability to act upon this.*
(Wasaya lil-Aroosayn by Sheikh Abdullah Al-Zahim: 14)